IN JUST ONE SINGLE DAY

Here I present you my worst experience being gay in my college. I did my hotel management from a college in Wayanad district of Kerala. I was one the best student of my class, teachers liked me a lot since I was also a classical dancer of Odissi. Everyone gave me respect. But an incident which took place, spoiled everything in just one single day.

I was in relationship with a guy whom I had met 4 years back, when I was too young for relationship. But I was in love with him, and he was a good person. But one day I came to know that he was the biggest fraud I had ever met. After that breakup I came across a guy whom I had accidentally met and later became good friends with. One day he wanted me to accompany him to Trivandrum and I went along. In the night we took a room and stayed there he kissed me and did some softcore. After few seconds he said he got to reply some messages and he took his mobile and clicked my pictures.

Few days later he asked me for 4000 rupees, since I was a student and I didn’t have. I said I don’t have, then his way of talking changed and started blackmailing with my photos. I was terrified and I paid him 4000 rupees but few days later he asked me for 8000. I really didn’t had and when I refused he said he will publish my photos and since he was working in a telecom company he easily traced out my address and other details. And started threatening me again and again. And when I discussed this with my friend he said “You are unnecessarily taking tension” and asked me to be bold and tell him to go & do whatever he wants. I did the same and then next day changed my life.

I was alone in my hostel room, sleeping it was early morning 5 am and someone started knocking my door. I was sleepy so didn’t open the door, I asked them what they want in the early morning and they replied me to check my Facebook. I found there was nothing special, I saw there was a new friend request from an account which was looking like my own account my name, details and my photo everything was the same. And it was him when I saw it was showing 23 mutual friends and me saw all were my college mate’s senior’s staffs teachers. And his id was uploaded with my nude photos. I felt like killing myself, suddenly more people started knocking my door and I was totally lost. I went and opened the door and all the class mates were there to tease me insult me. I was crying but it didn’t bother anyone, I didn’t talked to them.
Just ran to the stair case and said I am going to end my life. I said goodbye & was standing near the handrail. Was afraid to die but didn’t had another option too. Suddenly my friend who advised me to be bold earlier came to me n said “what are you doing?” my eyes were filled with tears & said I want to die. He said “Why you say you are gay & can’t survive?” He came towards handrail, pulled my hair & slapped me, hugged me and said “kill him rather than killing yourself.”

The moment when I came back to my room, for my class mates I was like an untouchable person; no one talked to me no one sat with me. No one talked to me. For several days I didn’t have a seat in my college bus. Always being insulted. I got extra duties. No one clapped for my dance programs. Said bad words about me. I faced a lot of insult from my teachers too. Earlier I used to write attendance register and other works but I was stopped from doing all those things since I was gay. Even if I sat somewhere in cafeteria the other group of student will get up & leave. One day I felt like crying and went to the washroom and threw my foods away. All of this was happening because I was gay. Gay gay gay they gave me several names, teased me, harassed me.
Several times I really felt that it was better to commit suicide.

Slowly 6 friends among them understood me and came to me as a good friends. We had our own good times. Slowly I began to understand that I haven’t done any crime to deserve this. I was harassed even by one of my chief, who taught us food production. One day when the class had to submit our log book and we all submitted in which only my log book was not corrected or signed, then I went to him for getting my log book signed. He was sitting with few other teachers and said “Hey, I came to know that you will bend your ass in front of anyone who waves.” I was really shocked and terrified because a person who was a teacher of mine insulted me. Suddenly I replied “Sir if you want me to bend for you don’t need to wave your hands, just give me a miss call” Listening to this he felt embarrassed & insulted. I added “Sir, you are not paying my fees, nor educating me or taking care of my expense or giving me shelter and food so it shouldn’t matter to you whether I bend my ass or not”. I said “You just take care of your child who is just 5 years old”. He was mum.

Listening to this several well-wishers form my college encouraged me that I have guts to speak. They encouraged me to reply back to people who are nasty & hurtful, I listened to them and did just that.

Once we had an extempore speech competition in our quality development class and before like I mentioned I had few best friends and among them, one was a girl. She took the lot and her topic was “Should gay marriage to be legalized or not?” And she asked me to help her to prepare for the speech and I helped her, she asked me my experience and all… And when the debate started it was like she said everything in an opposing way. I felt so hurt & insulted. My madam asked me to counter her arguments, I said my part and made her mouth shut and on that day our friendship ended.

After finishing the speech whole class supported her and I said you are you all clapping? I said “You fools before clapping and encouraging others, you all don’t know that there were 11 boys from my class who asked me for sex date and had sex with me. I will never disclose their names because I have promised them, I will disclose their names one day when I leave this college.”

The whole class started looking at each other, all started to doubt their friends, roommates etc. I lied that I had sex with 11 people in fact I never had sex with anyone in my college but my gutsy dialogue made them confused. And because of that doubt popped among friends several classmates of mine fought with each other doubting each other. But only I know that what I told was just a lie, to divert everyone’s mind.

Final exam came whole class became enemies with each other. I was happy to see that because they spoiled my 3 years and my one single lie spoiled their friendship which they build in 3 years. Everyone dispersed from college like how they were in the first days of the colleges without speaking much with each other. I was happy to see that no one gained anything in return of my tears. Finally those 11 names became an unknown secret to everyone. Till now they are waiting for that. College over classes over and here I finish my long story.

Posted by AMALL SANALL

15 comments

Hey Amall,
I have also read your last story “He waiting Him” and what I felt that you are a good writer. In this story you have shared your experiences of college life as a gay person and Here when I am reading this story I am emaging everything even your pain also. I can understand when people know about your sexuality they treat you very badly, but anyways time heals everything and we have to move on. I hope you are living a good life now, my best wishes are with you always. At last keep writing.

Your Friend
Abhi

Thankq so much abhi… fr reading all this and ur comment made my dayy

I’m so happy to see you write like this Amal. I literally wanna give you a tight, warm hug. You really have the potential to go forward. I feel so proud that you recovered all those absurd insults.
Love you loads.

Anand.

Thankq so much anand

I have been a part of his college life, and I don’t even knew such things were happening. I could only guess his reactions when I asked him to do duties when I was the lead and he who used to be my sub. I do remember that lady who spoke about gay topic. I also know she was ruining it. But his silence was remarkable.
Sometimes in life people get offended and fall into traps when they meet person’s whom they think them are good. Don’t fall into traps anymore, even if you are falling, do let me know so that I can be there at the bottom to catch you. And I promise you we won’t let u take the step before falling.
You’re always taken care of.

Best regards,
Sachin Nair

Thankq sachin fr reading and writing review. As u said we wer together but aftr completing 1st year finals… we both went to two directions. U wer busy in ur own area and i was being burried by rest of the batchmates. But haa am happy that u have noticed those incidents. But i dont feel hurt now coz may be that was coz they all didnt had any idea abt homosexuality and all… but my 3 years of graduation was ruined and each and everyone of our class were equally responsible sachin. In the class of 55 students only 5 people stayed with me…
But i am strong. Because thats the reasson i completed my 3 years fighting.

I have read the entire story and I must say it takes a lot of courage to write like this. Really proud of you Amall. Way to go Amall and god bless.

I have read the entire story and I must say it takes a lot of courage to write like this. Really proud of you Amall. Way to go Amall and god bless.

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Madhuri kashyap

Very nice your story Amaal ya fir yu khe ki jeevan ke ek experience ko sheron me utarna hi sacchi kahani ki sarthakta hai. Sach me bahut sundar likha hai aur everyone feel your pain bcoz you describe very fine. Vyakti ko khud hi khud ke liye stand lena padta hai koi nhi hota hai aapke sath aur agar aese wkt me jo sath dedeta hai wo Mahaan hota hai. So sabko choro khush rho aur apani life me aage bdo… God bless you.

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR COMMENTING. I AM SO THANKFULL TO YOU PEOPLE . PLEASE SUPPORT ME BY SHARING THIS , LET PEOPLE KNOW THAT ITS HARD WHEN THEY HURT US. DO READ MY OTHER STORIES TOO AND COMMENT

THANK YOU SO MUCH JOITA DEB FOR COMMENTING. I AM SO THANKFULL TO YOU PEOPLE . PLEASE SUPPORT ME BY SHARING THIS , LET PEOPLE KNOW THAT ITS HARD WHEN THEY HURT US. DO READ MY OTHER STORIES TOO AND COMMENT

Sure will do.Never loose hope

THANKYOU

Made me remember one of my worst memories of past.
Still after reading this, what i went through was but a mere fraction of what you faced.
If it was me in your place i maynot have lived to tell the tale… Happy to know someone as strong as you, and kudos to a bright future..
Happiness is a choice, always choose to be happy.
Glad to be a part of your future… Lots of Love

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